How To Have Lust In A Long-Term Relationship

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How To Have Lust In A Long-Term Relationship

In a marriage, sex is the glue that keeps people together. In good times or bad, if you have a lively sex life, you can go back to your partner again and again for connection and relaxation. Medical doctors and therapists agree that couples that have regular sex lives live longer than those who give it up because of age (health issues, of course, notwithstanding).

Simple truth: If you want to live a passionate life with a passionate marriage, you have to understand what creates an erotic love life. We’re not talking about giving flowers or lingerie here; here we’re talking about how retain your lust for your partner and avoid the pitfalls of becoming just best friends and life partners. Too many couples decide to err on the side of friendship because it makes us feel secure instead of taking the risky and rewarding steps of remaining lovers.

 

Next week Esther can show you how this is done. On July 20th Esther is talking with a panel of comedians to discuss the real "Sex in the City" that many New Yorkers are experiencing. Whether you’re in a long time marriage (and feeling like a caged animal in a passion-less relationship) or you’re single and still trying to find a good mate, Esther can help.

Join Esther and YourTango for a night of comedy, insight and advice on how to create a passionate, erotic relationship. You’ll be so happy that you did! You can get details and tickets for the event here and please stop by to say hello. We can’t resist this event any more than you can!

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