Reasons why we research the former women in our man’s life:
- Lack of trust
- Fear of inadequacy or measuring up to her
- Fear he still desires her
- Fear he’ll go back to her
There are other reasons, of course. But the main thing you need to know is you need to get a handle on yourself and your actions. Deal with your insecurities. It is never about the other woman. It is about what you and he have or don’t have (a secure relationship). Talk to him about how you feel. Talk to a counselor or dating coach if you need to.
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STOP being so insecure. Stop stalking his exes.
If you can’t trust your man, let him go.
If you know he hasn’t done anything wrong and it is just your insecurities causing all this drama and worry, get therapy. There is nothing wrong with seeking professional help. It will only make you better.
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Have you ever researched an ex? Comment below if so.