10 Ways To Get Out Of Sex

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10 Ways To Get Out Of Sex
...even if you thought you wanted it! Here's how to make it safer before your date.

6)Tell him you don’t do sex until you’re in a real relationship. It's definitely novel.

7)Be honest from the start. While chemistry feels good— hugging , kissing, all that lovey-dovey stuff at the beginning of a relationship feels great—it takes just one thing to go wrong and poof! all that magic is down the drain. So take care and make it last. Let your guy know that you want to take your time and get to know him better, however long that takes…let him know what you want, not that it’s necessarily with him, but that you’re holding out for the good stuff.

 

8)Write yourself a detailed letter about the last time you had sex with the wrong person and broke your heart, and keep it posted to your bathroom mirror (unless you don’t live alone)! Read it before you go out on a date where you might be tempted to make the same mistake again!

9)Call a friend to run interference. Make sure you have one or two friends that will be on call and know how to talk you out of making a big mistake.

10)LIE if telling the truth isn’t working. This is a last resort, as I always think telling the truth is best. However, in certain circumstances when it becomes obvious that the person you are with may not have your best interest at heart or be dangerous, get out and get out fast, whatever you have to say!

For more tips on how to have real intimacy, go to www.maryannelive.com.

This article was originally published at Maryanne Live . Reprinted with permission.
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