Your “Soul Mate” is her husband.

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Your “Soul Mate” is her husband.
Have you found someone online that you think is your soul mate? Make sure they are not someone elses

A person who is married but wants to date is looking for a vulnerable partner they can latch onto. They prefer someone who is also lonely, perhaps in a bad relationship, who can help them alleviate their loneliness and make them feel better about themselves. You will never find your soul mate with her husband. You may, however, have an affair with a married man or woman. The chances of that affair leading to divorce of their current partner and marriage to you are slim. The chances are greater that you would be able to see this soul mate as a person who lied to both you and their spouse. One thing is for sure; if you marry the person you had an affair with, most of your conflict will resolve around jealousy and boundaries. If you marry them, and have a couple of kids with them, they may begin looking like your spouse while being someone else’s soul mate.–Mary Jo Rapini
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Mary Jo Rapini

Counselor/Therapist

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