4. Re-evaluate your nagging. Some nagging is done for the right reason. For example, if you are the partner responsible for paying the credit card bills each month, and you have a tendency to forget, your partner’s nagging may be necessary. I would suggest in that case that you have a better monitoring system, so you don’t force your wife into unnecessary nagging.
The main reason nagging doesn’t happen with dating is because the person or people you date are not invested in you. They don’t really care. Most women won’t nag a person they don’t care about. Whether they are nagging about your health, your lifestyle, your words, or whatever…the bottom line is they care about you. I would recommend as a nice gesture in curing your nagger’s nagging that you begin with re-instituting date nights. Make sure you are very attentive on those nights, as many times naggers feel neglected by the one they love the most. I hope this article didn’t nag you too much. –Mary Jo Rapini
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