If you find that you are acting like the “cool” girl by saying you don’t care that he doesn’t want a relationship, or letting him cancel on you repeatedly, stop right there. Being confident in who you are is so important in dating and in life. Don’t act like you don’t care that your man only calls you after 10 p.m., or that he only asks you out on dates that involve watching movies at his house.
If you think that every guy is looking for a low maintenance girl, one who doesn’t make a big deal out of anything, you are mistaken. A relationship ready guy (not a player) is looking for a confident girl who will alert him if he’s not meeting her needs. Getting back to compatibility is such a powerful way to move forward in your relationships and if you can harness your self-worth, see the good in YOU and communicate your needs, you will confidently attract positive energy and relationship ready guys in 2013.
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And if you’re feeling brave, leave your thoughts on day one of the “Meet Your Man Challenge” in the comment box below. Tell me how the “cool girl” mentality shows up in your life, and what you’ll do this year to get some serious mojo going in the self-love department.
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