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4. He is mirroring you: When a man mirrors your actions, it is definitely subconscious, and a strong sign that is interested in you. Notice that he is copying your gestures at the table, brushing his hair back at the same time as you? This is a way to build rapport with you. If you change positioning a few times, and he seems to be following suit? You might be in luck that the third date WAS the charm.
5. He wants to relate to you: Men and women have to find common ground between them, so often if a man is interested in you, he will WANT to find more ways to relate to you. He will also share things with you–his experiences, his opinions. In this way, he can check in to see if you are compatible and find out if you are a match. Did he ask you to choose the next movie? Did you choose a chick flick and he is okay with it? Or maybe he wants to go with you to your next yoga class even though he says he is about as flexible as a log? Awesome–it is very likely that he is interested in getting to know you better!
Do remember that all men are different. Some might express their interest in different ways, but if your new man is expressing any of the signs in the Five Point “Is He Into Me” System, then chances are that he is definitely into you. If you still have trouble knowing if a guy is interested, consider consulting with a dating coach.
This article was originally published at Dating with Dignity. Reprinted with permission from the author.