50 Things You Should Try For Hotter Sex

3 Tips For A Quick Recovery After Your Breakup


3 Tips For A Quick Recovery After Your Breakup
Don't let a past relationship bring you down.
Breakups, to put it simply, can really suck. Here are tips to make your healing process much easier.

Yes, you may compare him to your ex or miss your ex during or after the date, but putting yourself back into the dating pool can be good for you! You don't have to find your next significant other in two weeks, but getting to know new people is a great way to remember how awesome you are.

If you feel ready for it, you can even try online dating; make sure to find a site that's a good match for what you're looking for. Getting out there and being available and open to meeting someone new is not only good for the ol' ego, but it's also good for your spirits. It might take a while for you to feel ready, but don't wait too long. You're too special to not get out there.

More from YourTango: The Link Between Sex and Health

3. Focus on you.

Being in a relationship is fantastic, but sometimes, if it's not the healthy kind, you can lose yourself a little. Take this opportunity to make yourself a priority. Take a solo trip, get a new haircut, try that vegetarian diet your ex-boyfriend wouldn't try with you. Maybe now you can take the 7a.m. Saturday morning beach boot camp class you'd had your mind set on for months but couldn't go to because your ex said it woke him up if you went that early.

More from YourTango: The Real Reasons Why Men Cheat

Cherish yourself, be kind to you and love yourself by taking actions that are LOVING to you. As Heidi Klum recently said about starting over after her breakup, "I've learned that you wake up in the morning, hopefully the sun is still shining and you just keep on going." So just keep on going. You've got it, and time does heal all wounds.

Share this with someone you love (or even like a lot)!

Let's make it
FB official
Recent Expert Posts
Staying Dry

Letting Go Is Hard To Do

Healing your heart after divorce or loss of a spouse is worth the effort. Letting go is hard to do.

cozy up

Showing Love Through Touch

Touch is so incredibly important in relationships.


Listen Up, Darling: A Sex Kitten Is Never Hangry or Tired

Recently I shared eight surprising traits of a sex kitten. Each of those traits are ones that ...

Ask The Experts

Have a dating or relationship question?
Visit Ask YourTango and let our experts and community answer.

How to find the right pro for you
10 Reasons Mental Health Pros Should Join YourTango Experts

10 Reasons Mental Health Pros Should Join YourTango Experts

YourTango Experts can help your business go from good to great.

10 Steps To Improve Your Coaching Business

Take your coaching business from mediocre to great in no time…

Frequently Asked Questions About YourTango Experts

Thinking of joining? Here's all the facts you need to know to make the most of your membership.

Getting Your Guy To Join You In A Therapy Or Coaching Session

So how can your get your strong, self-reliant, superman to talk to an Expert with you?

Therapist/Counselors: Who We Are & What We Do

What exactly does a therapist/counselor do and can they really help?

See more resources>