4. Know what you want and practice communicating it.
It’s a really good idea to sit down and evaluate what it is you’re truly looking for in a relationship. (It’s one of the Dating with Dignity’s 10 Steps to Breaking Free from Your Romantic Rut and Manifesting the Love of Your Life.) When you have true intentions and defined dating goals, it will be much easier for you to communicate these intentions through your energy and the way you communicate.
If you’re confused about your dating needs and wants, an emotionally unavailable man can slip through the cracks. Mr. Boyfriend Material is going to be ready for the confident you: the one who communicates what she wants. In fact, while it’s almost counter intuitive, men are actually most attracted to women who know what they want and aren’t afraid to ask for it by using powerful, feminine communication.
So define your intention and don’t be afraid to talk about it. If your guy is relationship ready, he’ll be open to these types of conversations, and you will be closer to finding what you want (and Mr. Right)! Conversely, a Mr. Wrong who is emotionally unavailable will run for the hills when faced with this type of conversation, saving you time, energy and room to attract your Mr. Right.
Once you use these strategies consistently, you’ll be shocked at how easy it becomes to avoid men who are emotionally unavailable and confidently step forward on your journey to getting engaged! If you need additional guidance or insight, consider working with a dating coach.