You want to show the world that your life is full and interesting, that you are independent and can take care of yourself, but telling a man how “busy” you are may backfire, giving him the impression that you don’t have time for a partnership. And what many women don’t understand is that a man wants to be with a woman who needs him—for something. And, let’s face it ladies, while you don’t need a man, you wouldn’t be here if you didn’t at least want one in your life!
When your very awesome life has resulted in a full schedule and a man asks you out, don’t respond by telling him how busy you are and that you’ll have to “let him know.” Instead, tell your suitor, “I am super active these days, but I would love to see you. How does your Thursday look?” This will land much softer, (and thus exude more of that feminine mystique men love) and show him that while your life rocks, there may actually be room for him in it for him if he is lucky.
If you would like to learn more about how to embrace your feminine energy and tune into your optimum attraction zone so you can create desire and attraction even when you feel nervous, fearful or worried, I’ll be sharing these tips on my free call Tuesday, December 6 at 5:30 pm PST/ 8:30 pm EST. You can register for the call at http://datingwithdignity.com/ignite/150.