As a matchmaker, my task is to facilitate singles to connect with their soul mates. In other words, just call me Cupid! In the dozen or so years that I have been matchmaking, I have had the pleasure of introducing many couples that have gone on to get married and ride off into the sunset living happily ever after. But there are also many singles that are still searching, and still struggling to find that perfect mate for them.
One of the biggest challenges that I see, a big reason that people are not connecting, is their expectation for a mate does not match with who they are. Attractive, intelligent and successful people want to date, and marry someone who they feel are “at their level”. They aren’t looking to settle for “average” or “so-so.” They’re looking for an incredible man or woman that is as exceptional as they are. I know, I know, he/she should love you for your witty personality, big heart and incredible soul….. well, sorry to say, but life ain’t fair! Humans are shallow and they have to like what they see before they want to know about your soul. It’s just the way it is.
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So if you’re seeking a person who’s the total package, you need to get real with yourself and ask: Am I the total package? Am I in the best physical shape I can be? The best emotional state I can be? The best spiritual state I can be in? If the answer is “uhh” or “well” or “not really” then there is some work to do. But the good news is, that it can be fun, heart opening and life changing!
Deepak Chopra says, “the correct mindset to attract a soul mate is not to look for the right person, but to become the right person. So, never ask what kind of person you want to attract into your life. Ask what kind of person you want to be and then when you become those qualities then a soul mate will show up to reflect those qualities because every relationship is a mirror and if you don’t like what you see in the mirror, you don’t fight with the mirror or break it, you change the reflection by changing yourself.”
Join me, and Nykki Hardin as we cleanse and reset! July 15th, 2013 is the start date. Join us for a 2 week nutritional cleanse (not a fast) and feel amazing. You will drop a few pounds, reset yourself emotionally, sleep better, and flood your body with nutrition! I did the cleanse last year and felt amazing. I even got along better with my husband.
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I do want to share that this two week cleanse is not just about releasing some weight off the booty and melting away your muffin top, it is waaaay more than that. Cleansing the body of toxins also cleanses the soul. Emotional baggage can surface and release, you will find yourself more calm and at peace, and therefore existing relationships can renew and thrive.
Toxins are toxic. Accumulated toxins in the body have been linked to cardiovascular disease, diabetes, arthritis, cancer, irritable bowel syndrome, and auto-immune disorders. Reset Self will protect your body and safeguard your health. Our anti-toxin tonics help extract dangerous, foreign substances from your system.