How To Ace A First Date In NYC

By

How To Ace A First Date In NYC
She agreed to go out with you. Now what?

The women of New York City are bold and beautiful, smart and stylish, and sophisticated and experienced. If you're about to take one of them out on a date for the first time, you'd better know how to treat her.

Contrary to popular belief, there are dos and don'ts of a first date. And knowing the proper way to treat a woman the first time you take her out has many benefits beyond landing a second date. Need some tips? Here is how to ace a first date in the Big Apple.

 

  • Enhance Your Image

Most women consider first dates very important. Even if it's at a casual location, it's still a formal event. For this reason, it's important to look your best and dress according to the tone of the restaurant or meeting place. But looking your best is easier said than done. How do you know what type of clothes look good on your frame? Should you leave your beard or shave it off? If you need a little assistance in this area, consider hiring a professional image consultant. The vital lessons you will learn from an image consultant can help you enhance your personal style and look your best.

  • Live in the Moment

Even if you look your best, a bad attitude can ruin your first date. Instead, live in the moment. How? Forget about what happened yesterday or even five minutes before you got to the date. Focus on things that will bring you two together instead of bad stories that might scare her away. Living in the moment also includes the way you look at her, the things you say, and how you say them. For example, what things can you say to show that you're focusing on the other person? 

More dating tips for men advice on YourTango:

Article contributed by

Marina Margulis

Matchmaker

New York Socials is an exclusive members-only dating club. We operate on principle that dating should be easy and natural. To achieve that, we organize Socials for our club members. Socials are cocktail parties where we introduce men to a number of women carefully preselected for them.

For more information, please visit my website at New York Socials.

Read my blog at Blog

Location: New York, NY
Credentials: CPC, Other
Other Articles/News by Marina Margulis:

Why Older Rich Guys Will ALWAYS Want (And Get) Younger Women

By

I'm a matchmaker. I don't take on women as clients. My clients are successful wealthy men who normally ask to be introduced to much younger beautiful women. Usually this is the part where older (read 40+) women accuse me of being misogynistic. They claim that it is because of women like me, who perpetuate this ugly reality, that older women ... Read more

If You Want To Attract A Mate, Get Out Of The Bathroom

By

Just as I thought I was done with advice articles for 2014, there I was, reviewing membership requests for our dating agency. Then, BAM—there it was. The two newest matchmaking requests included quite well-rounded and intelligent personality profiles. All seemed well, until I reached the bottom of the forms where we ask to attach photos. Both women ... Read more

The #1 Reason Jealousy Ruins Your Holiday (So, Don't Let It!)

By

Holiday season is upon us once more. As a dating coach, I have a lot to look forward to—holiday party invites, giving and receiving gifts, and talking many ladies off the ledge of their own making. Yes ladies (and you know who you are), it is time to face the truth: you will be invited to many parties and there will be many women there that are young ... Read more

See More

 
Latest Expert Videos
ASK YOURTANGO MORE QUESTIONS
Must-see Videos
SEE MORE VIDEOS
Most Popular