Ok, I lied, looks really do have something to do with irresistibility, but not in the way you’re thinking. Rock an appearance that’s uniquely you, not Kim Kardashian, Halle Berry, or Katie Perry. Sure you can copy a celebrity’s style every now and then, but why not develop your own? Why not have everyone follow your fashion sense? Play up your strengths, and learn to get over your flaws. If you’ve got great big eyes, accentuate them and study how to use them to flirt. If your lips are seductive, wear a color or gloss that highlights them and shows them to their best advantage. It's how you wear it - not what you're wearing - that determines whether you pull off a style or not.
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While we tend to view men as the stronger sex, He-men of the Universe, in reality, men are sometimes like puppies, eager to please and in desperate need of love and affection. They spend half their time questioning their prowess. The average Joe is not Tom Brady, Matthew Mcconaughey or Denzel Washington, and they’re well aware of it. Complimenting men on any thing is a sure fire way for guys to find you irresistible. Who doesn’t want to be appreciated?
• Eye Contact
Maintaining eye contact while speaking with a guy, and having your eyes twinkle is another way to magnetize guys. This tells a man first of all that he’s got your attention and he’s worth your time. Take it one step further and bat your eyelashes once or twice and touch his arm or hand while speaking and ten times out of ten, he’s hooked. But don’t get phony and go all femme fatale on him.
There is nothing irresistible about slovenly hygiene. Cleanliness carries an attraction all its own, from freshly washed hair to white teeth, to clean, spotless clothes. Just as you’d write off a guy with food stains all over his clothing and matted, unkempt hair, when you show up with spinach clinging to dull gray or yellowing teeth, you’re being written off as well.
• Mysterious You
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Last, but not least - hold out. Don’t tell your life story right away or go into all your past relationships or why you sued your second husband. Have some mystery about yourself. Hold back on all the details that make you, decidedly you. Tell just enough to have him want to know more about the intriguing, irresistible you.