If you don't take the time to heal from the wounds of infidelity, you could feel the pain forever.
If you've been dealing with infidelity for a few months now and heard the words, "You need to get over it." I'm here to tell you NO, you DO NOT need to get over it. You need to DEAL with infidelity for as long as you need to deal with it.
People who say that people have to get over a situation or another just don't understand how to deal with infidelity. They think that when something bad happens they can just sweep it underneath the rug and move on.
What Happens When You "Get Over It"
Well, do you know what happens when you just turn the other cheek and move on? You carry that pain with you for the rest of your life. While you may not feel that pain, you will manifest it in other ways. 2 Things You Must Do NOW To Truly Overcome Your Partner's Affair
The next thing you know you'll be that miserable woman who is yelling at people all the time for no reason, or you'll remarry and be that bitter wife, or you'll be yelling at your children for no reason. You might have anger management issues. The list goes on and on. You just won't be happy, and the people around you won't be happy either.
Either you deal with infidelity now, or you will spend the rest of your life creating problems that come out of not dealing with it.
Which one do you want?
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