7 Tips For Getting Back In The Sack After A Hiatus


7 Tips For Getting Back In The Sack After A Hiatus
Lucky Bloke has some sexy advice for getting your groove back.

4. Pay attention to your partner’s signals.
One of the luxuries of having one consistent partner (over a long period of time) is learning all the aspects that please that person. It’s easy to function on auto-pilot after awhile. If you are learning to get in synch with your partner, it’s going to take some exploring and awareness on your part. One of the greatest turn-ons is seeing your partner turned on, so pay attention!

5. Groom yourself.
Yes, everyone has different preferences. But porn from 2012 looks a bit different than porn from the 60s – and for a reason. You get my point.

6. Express your needs with tact.
Everyone has their own personal interests, tastes, and desires. There is a way to express your desires and still make your partner feel valued and respected. If you master this art, you will be blown away with your partner’s desire to please you. Well, unless they dig a firm scolding… [Grin]. Again, you get my point.

7. Have fun!
Listen to your intuition. Be mindful of your protection and health, but most of all enjoy! Yes, lighten up. It will be as serious or as daunting as you make it…If you are tuned into giving and receiving pleasure…that is what you will get…


Whether you are brand new to condoms or an expert…come join us:
LuckyBloke.com has launched the most comprehensive condom review ever!

Mission: Great Sex!

You'll receive an amazing assortment of condoms (free), enjoy them in the privacy of your home, and then fill out easy online (anonymous!) questionaires!

APPLY HERE: http://www.luckybloke.com/GreatSex

What are you waiting for?! 


Lucky Bloke extends a huge thank you to our friend in adventure and safety (and guest writer) Amy E. Smith. Amy is a certified and credentialed personal and couples life coach specializing in making intimate relationships joyful and thrilling.

Learn more about her work and snag some great freebies at www.TheJoyJunkie.com.

Article contributed by
Advanced Member

LUCKY BLOKE: Global Condom Experts

YourTango Expert Partner

Lucky Bloke:
Whatever Your Adventure – We’ve Got You Covered!




Location: ASHLAND, OR
Credentials: Other
Other Articles/News by LUCKY BLOKE: Global Condom Experts:

Sex 101: How Using Lube Can Improve Your Sex Life


If you think that you are ready to try something new in the bedroom, there a few things to keep in mind. Because intimacy is all about making your partner feel comfortable with trusting you, knowing the best (and safest) ways to maximize pleasure will go a long way. YourTango Sex Expert Melissa White of Lucky Bloke Condoms discusses how to wade through the ... Read more

Latex-Limitations: The Latex-Free Condom World Needs Flavor!


Flavored non-latex condoms are a specific need for those who want to have protected oral sex. For approximately 3 million Americans (1% of the country) who are sensitive to natural rubber latex, however, flavored (and non-lubricated) barriers are not an option. They simply are not manufactured for today's safer sex market. So, what's the orally-minded ... Read more

Condom Love: Find out How Amazing Safer Sex Can Be


By Melissa White, CEO and Founder of Lucky Bloke. As CEO at Lucky Bloke, converting non-believers to a better sex life with condoms has become my passion and simply doesn’t get old. So if you would file yourself in the love-to-hate condom category, or you’re sleeping with a partner who is a condom foe, or even if you’re just curious about ... Read more

See More

Ask The Experts

Have a dating or relationship question?
Visit Ask YourTango and let our experts and community answer.