Couples/Marital Issues

Years in Practice

6-10 years


Atlanta GA 30326 - United States



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I Practice in

All areas, please inquire



I Believe

"30 days is all Shay needs to help you attract "The One!"

About Shay "Your Date Diva" Williams

My name is Shay Williams and I am also known as "Shay Your Date Diva."  I am a Certified dating & relationship coach and Matchmaker, as well as a Certified NLP Practitioner who is passionate about helping to empower people of all ages to not settle for less than the love experience they deserve.  I graduated from Florida State University pre-medicine biology with a goal to become a surgeon but entered pharmaceutical sales instead. I started my journey of becoming an "expert" after my divorce when after a year of no dates I was told that there was something wrong with me because I was sending out the invisible signal that I was unavailable to men.  This hurt my feelings enough for me to tweak this signal a bit and soon enough, I entered a relationship in which I got played.  This happened a couple more times before I realized that there was something that I didn’t know that I needed to learn in order to "master" this thing called love.  Using my scientific mindset of discovery, I did an experiment on myself in which I went out on over a 100 dates with over 100 men in 9 months, interviewed 3500 men, women and couples and read over 60 relationship and human behavior books. 

I discovered a lot of information that helped me to discover the art of dating and the mindset of a man that leads to attraction or being turned off by a woman and I learned it so well that I was able to capture the heart of any man in less than 30 days!  I used this powerful information to help thousands of other women from all around the world do the same through my books:     “Mommy D.I.V.A Don’t Get Played!” and “D.I.V.A Don’t Get Played!” TV and radio appearances and most effectively, my Youtube channel which has experienced over 2 million hits!

Although I knew a lot about the mechanics of attraction and the psychology of men, I didn’t really learn or understand love until I went on my internal journey of discovering who I was and what love really is.  I discovered love on a heart level that can only be accessed once you reach the end of understanding and you make the walk of faith to discover something more.  

I have been honored with kind words and testimonies from clients and followers from all around the world who have seen my videos, read my articles and books or have been personally coached or matched by me however, with all of this recognition, I can not take credit for my intuitive ability to help people on a deeper level because what I do know with out a shadow of a doubt is that my gift is not of me but of God.  It is with this gift that I dedicate my life purpose to helping you attract a love you were created to have and deserve to experience! 

Shay "Your Date Diva" Williams Success Stories

My Clock Was Ticking And I Still Found Love!

Single women

"Dear Shay,more

Shortly after I got back from Atlanta, I applied your rules of "dating like a diva" and started dating online for the first time in my life. Guess what?! I found an amazing guy!!! It was only my 3rd online date EVER (the other guys I dated wanted relationships with me but they weren't up to par, so I passed and raised the bar).

Now, Jeremy and I have been together for almost 4 months now, since Oct 8, going strong. We have been to Cabo, San Fran, Wisconsin, Chicago, Vegas, and spent a week in Hawaii over Christmas. He is more amazing every day in every way. (NOT like the a-holes I've been with in the past whom I have completely cut off, mind you...)

An added perk is that he's Jewish, (although, like me, he never advertised that in his profile, so it was not a bias for either of us), and he owns a house at the beach, works from home, wants kids, and already flew me out to meet his entire extended family in the midwest for Thanksgiving (after only like 3 weeks dating!). Since about week 3 we have been talking marriage and kids.

All I can say is you were right! I just had to follow the Diva Do's..!!

Anyway, just wanted to say thanks for inspiring me; and hope you are doing great!!! ;-)" Sarah

Sarah Baxter" -- a 37 year old, from Los Angeles and Jeremy, 40 year old from Manhattan Beach

"Shay you are an angel and sent from God"

Women in complicated relationships

Message From Shay:more

When this client came to me, she has several issues that stood in her way of attracting love.  As a single mother, she was 40 pounds over weight, living in a distressed environment even though she could afford better and she had the worse experiences with realtionships.

After the first session the darkness that was in her eyes began to lift and to my amazement by the 3rd session, she looked like a new person!  She lost 40 pounds, moved into a brand new apartment and met a wonderful man who was a pastor.  Although I encouraged her to wait a little longer, they dated less than a year and were married in December!  I trusted her judgement because she had transformed into a new, confident woman by the end of her 6th session and I was so proud of her! 

- Shay Williams




I am truly Thankful for you Shay! You helped me to recognize past pain, forgive those that have hurt me, be empathetic to see the reason behind their hurt, realize that I AM worthy of the love from a God fearing black man, I can be a wonderful wife and mother, I can draw great things to me from the universe and that I deserve to be happy. When you helped me draw up my blueprint, it was manifested and called into existence. On December 19, 2011, I became Mrs. Richard Nathaniel Bell. I would have never believed that before the end of the year I would be happily married and living in a new apartment!

S. Bell; Columbus, Ohio

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