Debi  Berndt - Author, Business Coach, Dating Coach, Hypnotherapist, Life Coach, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner - Santa Monica, CA
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Why you shouldn't settle for mediocre relationships

Have you ever received an announcement from a friend announcing her engagement and felt bitter? You know you should be happy for her, but are frustrated that your friend with so much emotional baggage was able to get a man. You, on the other hand, have thrown yourself into personal development with workshops, ...

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Ever have a false positive in dating?

He seemed attractive enough at first. You had a great first date and you started to think that this could possibly be the one. Imagining that your lonely days are over, you get excited that he texted you right after the date to ask you out again. This is the point where your imagination starts to blur reality ...

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3 Reasons Why You Can't Find A Guy

What is wrong with men these days? This is a frequent complaint I hear from my customers and clients. No matter how positive they try to be, they still seem to meet men who just don't want a commitment. The ones who want to get married are boring and the ones who don't are so sexy, but flaky when it ...

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How to be grateful during the holidays but still want more

During Thanksgiving week, you are reminded to be grateful for the things and people in your life. When you are struggling with love or going through a breakup, the last thing that you may want to focus on is gratitude. You may be losing patience for your true love’s arrival or tired of dating men who just ...

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Are you afraid of screwing up in dating?

Women love to talk about relationships. They get together with fancy cocktails and dish on dating. They are always trying to understand men and solve that age-old question, “what should I do so I don’t scare him away?” If your friends didn’t have the answers, you may have buried yourself ...

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Debi Berndt

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10 years +

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Articles by Debi Berndt
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Why you shouldn't settle for mediocre relationships

Learn why you shouldn't compare your love life to your drama queen friends who settle for less.

Press To Exit

Ever have a false positive in dating?

You thought you found the one, but then he wasn't...

looking for love

3 Reasons Why You Can't Find A Guy

Always attracting hotties who won't commit? Find out why it may be your fault!

Puppy Love

How to be grateful during the holidays but still want more

Don't feel guilty about wanting more love in your life this year.

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Are you afraid of screwing up in dating?

You cannot make a mistake with the right one, find out why.

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Let Love In: Open Your Heart and Mind to Attract Your Ideal Partner
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Debi Berndt

All Specialties

Anxiety Issues, Chronic Pain/Disability or Illness, Communication Problems, Dating/Being Single Support, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Empowering Women, Energy Psychology, Financial Stress, Life Management, Marriage, NLP, Phobias/OCD, Self-Esteem, Spiritual, Stress Management, Trust Issues, Worry