Debi  Berndt - Author, Business Coach, Dating Coach, Hypnotherapist, Life Coach, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner - Santa Monica, CA
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Finding a man isn't the answer

Many singles tell me that they think that having a relationship will solve some problem like loneliness, heartache, insecurity or sadness. They blindly believe that a man will come in on a beautiful white horse and make them feel better. Spoiler alert…a new man in your life will not solve any of your ...

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Can clearing your blocks KEEP you single?

Yes, I have “worked” on myself for decades. Struggling with relationships and trying to find my life’s passion, I sought out every healing technique available to get me to my goals faster and easier. The harder I tried to fix myself, the more I uncovered that was dysfunctional about me. Instead ...

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If you know it all, why are you still single and broke?

A phrase often said by people who take a class or read a self-help book is “I know that already.” I used to say it all the time, too, and it was the one phrase that kept me stuck. After doing tons of personal development, I heard the same thing repeated by different teachers and would get anxious and ...

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Stop Feeling Rejected & Ask This Burning Question!

Dealing with rejection is a part of the dating game. Some people don’t even bother getting out there because they dread being rejected and the idea of rejecting someone else. Dating triggers things in your emotional lock-box that you often don’t want to look at. The slightest hint of a man pulling ...

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Facing Your Fears Can Build Your Dating Confidence

Most people jump into personal development to help solve a problem. The real goal is to have a new experience or result whether it is a new love, a new career or a new level in income. In that desire itself, your Read More

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Debi Berndt

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Time in Practice:

10 years +

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:

Business Coach

Dating Coach


Life Coach

Relationship Coach


YourTango Expert Partner

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Articles by Debi Berndt

Finding a man isn't the answer

Looking for a man to fill a void in your life will lead to heartache. Find yourself first.

Spring Landscape

Can clearing your blocks KEEP you single?

Learn how the process of healing your blocks can backfire and give you the opposite effect.

Do Not Disturb

If you know it all, why are you still single and broke?

The biggest block to getting what you want is to stop learning and growing.

Heart Sign

Stop Feeling Rejected & Ask This Burning Question!

Instead of blaming yourself for your dating blunders, find out the real reason why men disappear.

Mirror Image

Facing Your Fears Can Build Your Dating Confidence

Going toward what scares you in dating can release hidden blocks to love.

Check Out My New Book
Let Love In: Open Your Heart and Mind to Attract Your Ideal Partner
The real key to attracting lasting love and it ...
By Debra Berndt

Debi Berndt

All Specialties

Anxiety Issues, Chronic Pain/Disability or Illness, Communication Problems, Dating/Being Single Support, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Empowering Women, Energy Psychology, Financial Stress, Life Management, Marriage, NLP, Phobias/OCD, Self-Esteem, Spiritual, Stress Management, Trust Issues, Worry