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Debi  Berndt - Author, Business Coach, Dating Coach, Hypnotherapist, Life Coach, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner - Santa Monica, CA
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Are you looking for just a man or for your true love?

As a young girl, I loved to hang out in the kitchen when my mom was baking. I remembered that no matter how hungry I was, I had to wait for the cake to be done  before we took it out and it was ready to devour. If we removed it too soon, it would just be a floury, pasty blob. Just like all good things in ...

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Love Problems? Never Run From The Issue, Solve It

Decades of dating and I had the wrong approach to finding my true love. I got into personal development and healing because I was searching for a solution to my single problem. Every time an upset, horrible breakup or blow-off occurred, I was always seeking to escape the heartache by trying to find a healing ...

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There is only one man you need to understand to find true love

When I was 26 years old, I attended an inspiring workshop for women given by a man about men and relationships. This was before that mars book came out so it was totally new information for me. I left empowered thinking that I had all the knowledge and I would finally be able to have a great relationship – ...

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How Your Underwear Dictates Your Dating Life

You may have tried different tactics based on the advice you received on the proper behavior for landing a man. The real secret to attracting lasting love is through something unseen. You may seem like a grown-up but do you show up on a date feeling like a helpless ...

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Finding a man isn't the answer

Many singles tell me that they think that having a relationship will solve some problem like loneliness, heartache, insecurity or sadness. They blindly believe that a man will come in on a beautiful white horse and make them feel better. Spoiler alert…a new man in your life will not solve any of your ...

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Debi Berndt

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Time in Practice:

10 years +

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All areas, please inquire

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Articles by Debi Berndt
Make A Move

Are you looking for just a man or for your true love?

You can use the law of attraction to attract any man, but are you ready for great love?

sad teen

Love Problems? Never Run From The Issue, Solve It

We often want to "heal" our heartaches, but they are the key to finding your true love

Man & Woman

There is only one man you need to understand to find true love

Every man is different, so generic rules won't help you find true love. There's a better way...

How Your Underwear Dictates Your Dating Life [EXPERT]

How Your Underwear Dictates Your Dating Life

It's not only your smile or pretty dress, but something on the inside, that attracts him.


Finding a man isn't the answer

Looking for a man to fill a void in your life will lead to heartache. Find yourself first.

Check Out My New Book
Let Love In: Open Your Heart and Mind to Attract Your Ideal Partner
The real key to attracting lasting love and it ...
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Debi Berndt

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Anxiety Issues, Chronic Pain/Disability or Illness, Communication Problems, Dating/Being Single Support, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Empowering Women, Energy Psychology, Financial Stress, Life Management, Marriage, NLP, Phobias/OCD, Self-Esteem, Spiritual, Stress Management, Trust Issues, Worry