Debi  Berndt - Author, Business Coach, Dating Coach, Hypnotherapist, Life Coach, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner - Santa Monica, CA
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Why Aren't You Married? Facing Your Love Alibi

If you are over 30 and single, you have certainly heard the question, “Why aren’t you married?” There is an subtle undercurrent that goes with the question and you may interpret their prodding into your love life as if they are saying “What is wrong with you?” or “I ...

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Are You Discounting Yourself In Love?

Everything in life has a price and you pay a price based a perceived value. Just like selecting a mate, you always attract into your life an exact match to how you much worth you see in yourself. Do you feel like you have been hanging out on the clearance rack, out of style, tattered or used? No one else can ...

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Suffering from Self-Help Love Fatigue?

When I was single I used to spend a lot of time in the self-help relationships section of the bookstore. After years of searching, every book started to look the same and the advice was just a regurgitation of some other dating expert’s theories I have heard a million times in the past. My mind numb from ...

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Alone on Valetine's Day? Having faith in love again

After being on the market for a while or enduring the pattern of one failed relationship after another, you may begin to lose hope that your love life will get better one day. More than improving your looks or your dating missteps, the one element that is critical in attracting the love you want is to believe ...

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Don't Hate Valentine's Day if you are Single

For some singles Valentine’s Day reeks of everything despicable from gloating co-workers showing off their flowers, engagement rings and romantic weekend plans to the realization of yet another year without a sweetheart of their own. Despite the deluge of romantic paraphernalia, you can change from a hater ...

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Debi Berndt

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Articles by Debi Berndt

Why Aren't You Married? Facing Your Love Alibi

A Love Alibi is an excuse you give for why you aren't married. Found out how this keeps love away.

couple frustrated

Are You Discounting Yourself In Love?

Do you feel like you are on the clearance shelf, tattered and torn, begging for dates?

sad girl 2

Suffering from Self-Help Love Fatigue?

How to turn self-help into self-acceptance and finally get results you want in love.

woman frustrated 1

Alone on Valetine's Day? Having faith in love again

Finding it hard to have hope that true love is out there for you? Here's how to change your mind.

single lonely 2

Don't Hate Valentine's Day if you are Single

Discover 5 ways to change your mindset around Valentine's Day to attract your true love

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Anxiety Issues, Chronic Pain/Disability or Illness, Communication Problems, Dating/Being Single Support, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Empowering Women, Energy Psychology, Financial Stress, Life Management, Marriage, NLP, Phobias/OCD, Self-Esteem, Spiritual, Stress Management, Trust Issues, Worry