Men have a different button that needs to pushed for them to love you the way you love back. For women sometimes it can get really hard and sad, because you put so much effort into loving your boyfriend, and you don't see a response. You can't love him like you want to be loved, you have to love him like he wants to be loved. Yes I know this sounds confusing, but it's true.
Loving your boyfriend like he wants to be loved will trigger a button that a lot of women in relationships are never able to push. By knowing exactly how he wants to be loved, it creates an opportunity for a longer lasting and happier commitment from your man. Every woman wants a happy boyfriend, and a longer relationship right? You're not only looking for sex, you want more. Therefore, it is important to understand how he wants to be loved.
Sometimes girlfriends can be so caught up in being in love, that they only show their partner the love they want. This could have the opposite effect, because you're not realizing that you're showing the love you want to get back, instead of the love he wants from you. It's a confusing cycle, but if you figure out how he needs to be loved, it will make a huge difference.
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