Thus, whichever way he decides -- he’s the one in control and generally a male feels more comfortable that way -- it’s biological, a built in fact. And, it fully benefits me because then I know with whom I’m playing; a temporary let’s have some fun together kind of guy or a possible keeper. Then I can relax and get into the game, knowing what I can reasonably expect: no surprises, disappointment, or unspoken expectations.
My advice to you is: relax, enjoy life to the fullest, let go of negative thoughts (they are only thoughts, not facts) -- that will also make you more attractive to the opposite sex.
I would love to hear what YOU think.