2. If you "mess up" and get this “something new” wrong, grab yourself by the bootstraps and do a little inner celebratory dance. Note what you would do differently next time. Notice you didn't die. If you do die, send me the bill. Seriously, though, please put lots of attention on the fact that you are still brilliant and good, even if your project didn't go as planned. Please congratulate your bravery!
You are not your wins, losses, messes or misses.
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"Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new."
"I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've
lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to
take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed
over and over and over again in my life. And that is
why I succeed."
~ Michael Jordan
"Out beyond ideas of right-doing and wrong-doing there is a field. I'll meet you there."
LiYana Silver, CHC, RYT, MaNLP, has been called many names: “A relationship magician,” "The archangel of intimacy, love, sensuality and evolution," "...witty and wise..." "... a bright light on The Path..." “A gifted teacher, coach and relationship expert with a huge heart and an obvious commitment to making a difference in this world by supporting more loving, healthy and fulfilling relationships. “ She’s also been called a relationship expert, master coach and advocate for switched-on women world-wide.
LiYana works with change agents and thought leaders who are rockin' making the world a better place, but whose relationships may be a tad rocky. She helps them transfer the excellence they bring to most areas of their lives onto their relationships, and trade up often a lifetime of painful patterns for partnerships that make them say, "Are you kidding me? I can't believe it's really this good! And it just keeps getting better and better!"
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LiYana maintains a private practice as a Relationship Coach, speaks nationally, has appeared on dozens of radio and TV shows, maintains her website and business, http://www.love3point0.com ('cuz 1.0 and 2.0 aren't working so well!) and writes for various magazines and blogs — including YourTango.com.