Are Bad Love Habits Keeping You Single?

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Stop putting off your life and/or personal happiness So many of us put off personal happiness waiting for some external result like "I'll be happy when I lose weight, when I pay off my debts, when I get a better job," etc. The truth is, you deserve to enjoy your fabulously imperfect life right this very minute! When you stop putting off happiness, you start attracting happy people, healthy relationships, exciting and new opportunities. Instead of postponing joy until your life is magically perfect, today's the day to start celebrating the joy in your everyday life.

Embrace a new dating vocabulary Now that you're baggage light and dating trap-free, it's time to introduce a new vocabulary to your dating belief system. Every morning and night for 30 days, practice the following exercise: Say to yourself "Love/dating/my ideal relationship is …” and then fill in the blank with the appropriate words. (Words like healthy, whole, loving, fun, etc.) By creating a new vocabulary for yourself, you may be surprised at how your outlook on dating and relationships changes, and as a result, you’ll start attracting happier and healthier potential partners. Love that!

 

Want to know more about the bad love habits that may be keeping you stuck? Check out my e-book Bad Love No More: How to kick limiting relationship beliefs to the curb and say yes to real and lasting love!, available now at http://www.badlovenomore.com/

Ready to manifest Mr. Right? Pick up a copy of my new book If He's Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong - and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right.

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Lisa Steadman

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Lisa Steadman

Location: Los Angeles, CA
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Specialties: Dating/Being Single Support, Life Management
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