4. Spend Non-Sexual Time Together In The Bedroom. After my husband has had his good night's sleep, and before we initiate sex, we spend time together in the bedroom, laughing, talking and flirting. This helps us both relax, reconnect and rebuild our sexual and sensual bond with one another. Don't overlook the importance of connecting with your partner in the bedroom without the expectation of sex.
5. Flirt Outside The Bedroom. Our foreplay typically begins in the kitchen. My husband peruses his favorite cooking magazines, we take a trip to his favorite local markets and, in the evening, we put on some music, don our aprons and cook together. We spend hours prepping, cooking and—finally—eating. By the time we're done, we're relaxed and feeling romantic. Once the food has settled in our stomachs? It's ON! If you or your spouse are not adept in the kitchen, flirt elsewhere. The key is to find ways to connect with one another that feel organic and spontaneous. Bond over reading the Sunday paper on the couch. Spend time together gardening in the back yard. Finding unique ways to connect with your partner outside the bedroom will enhance what happens in the bedroom. 5 Simple Hobbies That Can Help Couples Reconnect
So there you have it. My 5 ways to rev up your sex life when you're short on time. See which tips work for you. And share your successes with me here.
To really make this advice work, you need to follow these action steps to complete today's challenge.
Right now, I want you to:
Own your own sexual needs and communicate them to your partner. Ask to hear your partner's needs, too.
Within 7 days I want you to:
Initiate non-sexual physical contact with your partner that lets him know you love and appreciate him.
By the end of the challenge I want you to:
Set aside one evening per week to enjoy a slow, romantic date with your partner. Talk. Laugh. Touch. And see where it leads!