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EMBRACE Your Sexuality—​And Witness Your Life Sparkle


Embracing your sexuality and creativity will have a positive impact on your life! Let it sparkle.

I like to say, "Sexuality fuels Creativity. Creativity fuels Sexuality. Both are a fuel for life."

What the heck do I mean by that?

It’s all that joy, excitement and pleasure you feel when you’re riding high after an orgasm or the rush you get after a creative idea. It’s feeling fully alive and ready to take on the world.

That's the juicy energy and power that becomes the fuel to propel you forward in other areas of your life! 

When you're fulfilled sexually, it's easier to be creative. When you're creatively stimulated, it's easier to be sexual.

When you're confident and can express yourself in your sexuality and creativity. It's easier to take action in other areas of life—like negotiating for that raise or tackling a challenging relationship conversation.

But what happens when you’re neglecting your sexuality or creativity? What’s it like when you’re afraid to express yourself?

You’re feeling blocked. You’ve got low energy. You’re in a slump. You’re worried about what other people think. When we shut down that part of us, we die a little inside.

Guess what? That’s normal too.

While we are all sexual beings and we’re all creative. We all inherit scripts from family, religion and society that get in the way of us being ourselves.

The good news is, it’s never too late! We are like renewable resources.

The minute we start taking action in our sexuality or creativity, we start to build energy and gain confidence. The more confidence we have, the more actions we’ll take.

You may do it on your own or you may enlist a close friend or confidant to encourage you. Those are great!

I know your sexuality and creativity are very personal. Sometimes you need some extra non-judgmental support. As a professionally trained coach, I’m here for you. My desire is for you to fully be yourself and live the juiciest life possible!

Learn more and get your FREE GUIDE: Uncover Your Sexuality & Creativity Scripts.


This article was originally published at Lisa Speer Coaching. Reprinted with permission from the author.


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