My clients know how important it is to have an expert watch over and encouraging them through the dating process. As your Naked Dating® coach, I will be with you every step of the way, reminding you of how special you are, that true love exists, and that it is yours for the taking. I will help you spot the good guys and let the not-so-good-guys go. When you go out on one dead-end date after another, it can be tough to stay optimistic and keep the momentum. Who better than me to keep you going through that process? Before I met my husband, I went on nearly 100 first dates in two years. You heard me right: I went on nearly 100 first dates in two years. Only two of those dates were second dates. If anyone knows how challenging this process can be, it’s me. But I found true love and you can too! Let me help you!
Helping you understand what true love is and helping you keep the faith that you can find it…
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This is my personal favorite reason for coaching and it’s why I became a coach. I grew up in a very unloving and critical family. From a very early age, I knew that something was seriously wrong with the way my parents treated each other. They divorced when I was ten, and I became trapped in the middle of their failed marriage. I had no way to guard against the vicious things they said to me about one another. I was too young to understand how poisonous it is to gossip, but I knew intuitively that something was terribly wrong with what they were doing. As a kid, all I wanted to do was love my parents. Like I lot of people, when I grew up, I married a man who was like my father and repeated many of my parents’ mistakes. When that ended, I vowed to figure out what real love looked like and how to find it. I couldn’t keep repeating the same mistakes and recreating loveless relationships.
This is how Naked Dating® was born. When I left my first husband, I spent six years doing some serious interpersonal work on myself, doing everything from traditional therapy to working with a well-known Mexican shaman, Don Miguel Ruiz. At some point, everything I was learning about love and relationships started to make sense. I realized that true and unconditional love started with me: that the way to attract true love was by becoming a truly loving person. I didn’t just go out on dates and look for The One. I focused on becoming The One. I knew that change comes from within and that I would only attract the partner I wanted by becoming the kind of partner I wanted to attract. This is the heart and soul of Naked Dating® and it is something I can show you how to do.