I’ve been working with women in all stages of divorce for a long time now, and regardless of whether she was aware of it or not, every woman deep down inside knew that her marriage was in trouble before the divorce ever became a reality. My guess is that men experience the same thing.
They come out of nowhere. And we are never prepared for them.
I call them sucker punches. Divorce sucker punches; or the moments that unexpectedly take our breath away.
You know what I am talking about, because we all experience them. They are waves of sadness, loss, loneliness ...