If you and I are not prepared to do these last few things we will make mistakes like getting married too soon or to the wrong partners, make poor decisions about birth control, and judge and blame our friends, parents and colleagues instead of taking personal responsibility. Most of us already have at least once. And most important, we are flat out NOT ready to bring children into this world.
Yes, we have made mistakes, done terrible things and have been hurt by others.
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We NOW must know and believe we are not our mistakes, we are not bad people and we are not broken. If we are healthy enough to breath our way through this article we are worthy of true love, joy and happiness. And we can alter the course of our future and create a new powerfully fulfilling legacy for our children.
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Larry Michel is a breakthrough relationship expert helping couples and singles shed damaging fears and stories from their past and experiencing true intimacy, love and fulfillment in the present. Find out more at TheFourAnwers.com or MatchMatrix.com or connect with Larry directly at email@example.com