Want A Happy Relationship?

By Larry Cappel. Posted on May 24th 2012.

5 Things To Look For In A Partner And In Yourself

Why are we so bad for each other? Have you ever wondered why relationships you've gotten into have ended so badly? Conversely, perhaps the opposite is true; relationships ends with no fanfare, fading away without a whimper. Wish you could evaluate a new prospect earlier in the dating cycle and cut your losses and run if it doesn't look good?

Here are a few things to look for in anyone you date:

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