Mirror, Mirror: What Gay Men Can Learn From Snow White

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Mirror, Mirror: What Gay Men Can Learn From Snow White [EXPERT]
7 things that Snow White can teach gay men about relationships!

2. You don't need others to tell you that you're a good, lovable and desirable person. External validation is fleeting and false. Find it within yourself.

3. Acknowledge that you, like almost all gay men, had a difficult time growing up in a hetro-centric world. Your natural and normal sexual orientation was not accepted as OK and there were no good male role models to learn from. Find peace with your past.

 

4. Shame is toxic. Growing up gay in a straight world creates shame. For the gay man shame is the root of the evil step-mother. Dig it out and get rid of it. Sandra Fluke & The Power Of Shame

5. Learn to listen to your intuition...and trust it! Be willing to spend time alone with yourself so you can learn to hear your intuitive voice. Parties and non-stop social life do not foster our inner creativity.

6. Just because a guy is hot, has six pack abs and drives a BMW does not mean he is the guy for you. Get to know him before falling for him. Let your intuition guide you. Can he meet you there in that field of intimate and vulnerable connection?

7. To thine own self be true! Your authentic self is your inner beauty. Let it shine for all the world to see. This sunbeam of your personal inner beauty is what makes you attractive to others. Inner Beauty: What Men Don't Tell You

The journey of self-discovery is the warrior's journey. You have to be brave, be willing to be vulnerable and willing to ask for help. Take the time to get to know yourself. If you don't know how to do that then ask for help. Find a coach or therapist who can help you to that fulfilled place within that is not dependent on whatever {fill in the blank} you imagine you lack. Whatever you fill that blank with is fleeting and will not last. The only constant you have to guide you through your life is that inner knowing of your own unconditional beauty that comes from knowing deep down inside that you are lovable and capable of loving in return. 9 Steps To Setting And Reaching Relationship Goals

If you and your prince are having problems or you are wondering when your prince will kiss you and wake you up, call me, email me, or simply schedule your own appointment online now. My passion is to help gay men overcome growing up gay in a straight world, to embrace their true nature and to create a loving, successful and wonderful life for themselves and their loved ones, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. Change is possible. Transform your life into the life you’ve always dreamed of! Don’t wait another day!

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Your Denver Counseling Larry Cappel, M.A. LMFT

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Living in the world on the world's terms with balance, calm, patience and serenity.

Are these qualities that you value in your life? If so and you've run into a wall that you can't figure out how to get around then I'm here to help. Call me, email me, or simply schedule your own appointment online now. My passion is to helping people to embrace their true nature and to create a loving, successful and wonderful life for themselves and their loved ones. Change is possible. Transform your life into the life you’ve always dreamed of! Don’t wait another day!

 

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