These habitual behaviors separate you further and further from the state of unconditional love that is your birth right. Falling deeper and deeper out of your connection with the life force energy we call love, you may lose your sense of being safe and worthy of life’s gifts and Divine assistance. To stay away from feeling lost, you begin avoiding these feelings by escaping the present moment, and not trusting your intuition anymore, you start repressing your creativity, avoid sharing your truth and fall out of personal integrity. This makes you disembodied, overanalyzing human machine focused on performing at work, trying to be righteous in your relationships, and becoming more and more controlling and manipulative.
We are often willing to pay a high price for experiencing feelings of love and belonging. But in a process of looking for fulfillment of our basic human needs outside of ourselves, we lose the sense of who we are. This eventually leads us to feeling resentful while participating in unfulfilling relationships with others.
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The questions below are intended to help you find and fully express your inner certainty, seniority and truth in the matters of love. The Law of Attraction works its miraculous powers through every relationship you form, teaching you the same lessons of self-acceptance and acceptance of what is again, and again, and again.
You have a choice to stay in the same Earth Drama class forever or move on and graduate from the Earth School of Suffering. Acknowledging that will shift you in seeing your relationships as a puzzle that needs to be solved before moving to the next level of the game. It will help you understand that when you loose your seniority and give your power away, you slow down the process of becoming a self-reliant individual, who is consciously making relationship choices that resonate with your truth.
Working with these questions will allow you to start seeing an underlying theme in every relationship that you create and make choices that support your steady growing progress. This work will help you shift into being able to make choices that support you in cultivation of love and self-empowerment.
Can I honestly see what each person I interact with is really about?
Do I allow myself and other people to learn from every experience even if it looks like a mistake?
Do I trust my inner guidance to help me make wise decisions?
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You can utilize examples from my list below to assist yourself in shifting from confusion into seeing your world archetypally. This work will allow you to be more balanced in your interactions and do not take things personally, to talk positively and to make choices that support your new language: