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The Body Knows: Love, Sex And The Law Of Attraction

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The Body Knows: Love, Sex And The Law Of Attraction
The Law of Attraction rules your sex and love life. Take a wild road trip into your untamed nature

Being a little child is easy… You want something and you scream… Immediately everyone pays attention and you get what you want (just because your expression is loud, annoying and invokes pity and worry). Or you smile. You open those big magical child’s eyes and they melt anyone around you. And you get what you want.

Being a little child is simple… When you do not want something, you scream… Immediately everyone pays attention (just because you are loud, irritating and persistent) and they let you have it.

Being a little child is simple… You run away and hide behind the chair and “they” forget about you. You can easily change the rules of your game if it does not work for you. You can make new friends every day and let go of the ones that are “not fair”. You love them, you hate them, you forget about them at the end of the preschool day and are free to make new choices tomorrow.

Being an adult is not that straightforward. You have to fit, compete, perform. You have to know what is right and you cannot change the rules set up by your boss. You cannot scream, cry, or run away… Not all the time, anyway. You’d be called irresponsible. You’d be accused of being childish.

Being an adult is boring. You have to “be accountable and dependable” for others. When you feel like a lost child, you have to look like you know what is up, hide the truth and you go about your business of being an adult.

But the truth of being lost, unsatisfied, disconnected from your true desires never dies. It settles in your body and waits for you to grow up enough so you can look yourself in a eye and be 100% honest about it. Whatever you were creating without inner truth will eventually fall apart. Every hidden dissatisfaction, every repressed desire, every unsatisfied need starts coming to the surface in order for you to grow up and step into your full creative power.

Our longing starts with the fairytale of Unconditional Love. The love I am talking about is not about emotional experience or a label we use to name our desire for companionship. It does not require an action of caring, nurturing or needing to be taken care of.

Unconditional love is not a mental understanding and emotional forgiveness. This level of connection is not based on previous agreements and marital contracts with others or even yourself. I am talking about pure vibration, electricity, magnetism, gravity… a pure life force, energy of creation that could be measured as a wave form.

This energy is huge. It is a vitality of a spring flower rushing through the dirt. It is a force of Mother Nature destroying an old forest by fire. It is the Cosmic Mother washing her sloppy kids after millennia of playing in a mud.

This powerful energy awakens those who were unaware of being unaware and makes them wonder about their purpose. It also awakens those who are conscious about what a true love is about making them practical leaders, teachers, and role models of Love. But most importantly, this powerful experience awakens us to every aspect of our life that is off our kilter and makes us question what is ours and what is not.

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Lana Pritzker

Author, Dating Coach, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter

Lana Pritzker is an Intuitive,  Author, and the Relationship Coach. She is passionate about  helping women find their authentic self, and then find a relationship that they desire.

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