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"What's The Purpose?"

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"What's The Purpose?"
What happened next was just as shocking. A big question of “What the purpose?” seemed unanswerable

If money would not be an issue and I lived for 300 years would I dance with this guy tonight? And would I wear this dress because I felt guilty that I got it 6 months ago and never got to wear it? If money would not be an issue and I lived for 300 years what would I do today? If money would not be an issue and I lived for 300 years what would I say to my child? To my spouse?

If money would not be an issue and I lived for 300 years who would I be living with? And where? If money would not be an issue and I lived for 300 years what kind of job would I do? If money would not be an issue and I lived for 300 years who would I give the gifts to? If money would not be an issue and I lived for 300 years who would I want to call today?

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If money would not be an issue and I lived for 300 years whose phone calls I would not return? If money would not be an issue and I lived for 300 years what travel destination would I chose? If money would not be an issue and I lived for 300 years would I listen to criticism and devaluing? If money would not be an issue and I lived for 300 years how would I take care of myself, so I look and feel great at 300 years old?

With every question I felt like layers and layers of illusions came off my shoulders and decisions that were previously based on feeling insecure and financially limited, being geographically challenged and limited in every human way were falling off and the new decisions based on my authentic feeling in the moment took their place.

If money would not be an issue and you lived for 300 years who would you listen? Who would you share your day with? What would your day look like? If money would not be an issue and I lived for 300 years what dreams would I fulfill today?

If you do not have a dream, how can you make it come true? If your dream is not true, why bother? If 300 would be a norm, but you would only have 80 years out of those 300…Would you be the way you are? Would you do what you do? Would you worry about things that seem real to you right now?

What would you really invest you focused energy into if you lived fully every day of your life and scarcity would not direct your choices?

I keep asking these questions and notice my focus shifting into dimensions of life where someone’s “Shoulds” are not more important then I am and my experiences reflect how conscious I am about every choice I make. Liberating, funny and unreal, my life is taking a new turn. I invite you to discover what would be real for you if you lived 300 year and then allow it to shift into being real for you now.
 

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