3. Understand that you have no control over what other people say, think, or feel.
Listen, your man has his own perception of the world, as do you. Devaluing his feelings and thoughts is not loving, in fact, it can make you look straight evil and undesirable. I think you get the point. So, the next time your man, or anyone for that matter, pays you a compliment, I want you to do the following: Stop, Drop and Appreciate. 3 Simple Steps For Lasting Love
Stop yourself from shutting him down. In fact, practice saying nothing at all. Drop the thought that he is crazy because you don't believe his words. Remember, it's your perception versus his. And last but least, appreciate his words by accepting his compliment with a simple, yet highly effective, "Thank you." Isn't your relationship worth the effort in changing this bad habit?
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