The more love and money you have, the more inner and outer power you have.The more of both you have, the more influence you have and ability to live the way you want.
If you’re afraid your power will hurt people, make others jealous or make you stand out too much, you’ll unconsciously act out behaviours and make decisions about your life that will keep your power suppressed.
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So, the more you suppress your power, the less money and love can come in because the Universe will only supply you with what you demonstrate you need and intend to use up.
One way you may be “acting out” is keeping strong beliefs activated that there is a scarcity of men or a scarcity of money – all your focus is there – and what you focus on expands.
Simply shifting your focus to an abundant mindset and envisioning an infinite supply of whatever your heart desires, and then taking action will accelerate it coming toward you.
I make it a regular practice to set BIG goals, envision things beyond my wildest imagination – my bank account or what’s happening in my current life situation is never a part of the equation. If I did, nothing would ever get off the ground and it would be challenging to move forward.
So when you learn how to celebrate your greatness and truly own it, your love life becomes a joy vs. a pain and money becomes a friend rather then a fear or responsibility.
Below is a great exercise to help you begin the process of shifting through getting your power back in all the areas of your life you need to:
1) Where ARE you comfortable with your power?
Think of a time or all the places you already feel powerful and write them down. It could be your job, a presentation you did, a friendship – whatever it is for you.
2) Where are you NOT in your power?
This could also be in a relationship or your job/ business/ pets/children/ money/ yourself – write it down.
3) Then, ask yourself “What would a strong, attractive, brilliant woman do in this situation?”
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