4) Now, let’s put this all together. Create 2 headings “image” on the left and “= Value” on right. See my sample below to show you what to do with your descriptions and how to easily determine what you truly value:
Image = Value
Long conversations/sharing your day/ expressing your feelings Communication
Walking on the beach/hiking/sailing nature Outdoors
Meeting your parents/ Xmas dinner having children/ Family
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Continue to do this with every image on your list and place the value next to it. You should end up with at least 5 – 7 values that stand out. Now you have an accurate, reliable compass to guide you every time you meet a new, potential mate – so great! On the flipside, if a new man in your life only shares 1 or 2 values, this is probably a strong indication they’re not a good match for you.
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