My Life as a Phone Sex Operator - Part 7

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My Life as a Phone Sex Operator - Part 7
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I answered my ringing phone, and heard: “I’m here, Kelly. I’m here in the room, in a sex swing - naked – and I am so horny. I really, need to be fucked, used, and treated like a bitch.” By his voice, and his words, I knew immediately it was a regular caller named Michael, the “I’m NOT gay” guy, who goes at least once a week on the hunt to meet other men in bath houses, book stores, or orgies put together in hotel rooms advertised online. I used to think it was all just a phone fantasy for him, but over time, I could tell that he was also exploring his fantasies in real life. He would even call in to talk to me, and then pass the phone to the anonymous stranger he was with at the time, for him to say hi to me. I realized he was trying to share with me a very special, very private part of his life.


Many of my callers are “regulars”, meaning that they have been calling me on a routine basis for a period of time; sometimes daily, weekly or monthly. After several calls from someone, I get to “know” them in a way that I don’t think anyone else in their lives does. They let me in on secrets, dreams, ideas, and after awhile, they will also confide about non-sexual things. I begin to know about what they do for a living, their families, and other specific and intimate details. With Michael, I started feeling like I was taking his confession. Each time he called, I’d ask, “So, what naughty things have you done this week?”; he would then, openly and in great detail, confess how he had gone trolling around in various internet chat rooms or on chat lines to find dates. His desire to have relations with other men so overwhelmed him that he told me that he sometimes even gave out his home address to people he barely knew. While the potential risk apparently added to his excitement, I told him that he should be careful.


I was always curious as to why a person would be into such things. Michael wanted to be spanked, tied up, and dominated - by men, and sometimes by women. Michael wanted to be repeatedly humiliated, and I came to find that there was nothing too unusual or kinky for this man. Over time, it became obvious that while he preferred women, he sought out relations with men because sex was so easy to get from them, and also it related back to experiences he had years before, which is the root of how all this had started…

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