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My Life as a Phone Sex Operator - Part 11

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My Life as a Phone Sex Operator - Part 11
Comfort is key when having an orgasm!

Mr. Sexy Voice has been a regular phone sex caller. I never really knew what he looked like, but in MY fantasy, he was a hot, sexy, Italian-looking man with dark wavy hair, slightly muscular body, beautiful teeth, and a large unshaven cock.

After a few years of chatting on the phone and sharing his most intimate secrets, Mr. Sexy Voice decided it was high time he send me a “hot” picture of himself. It’s always a dilemma for me, really. I never want to be rude, and say “No”, and ruin my professional phone-sex business relationship, because that may fulfill the caller’s fantasy. But then again, I don’t always want to say “Yes”. I’d say 5% of the time a person may follow through with a photo; most of the time it is an “in the heat of the moment” comment that results in me not receiving anything.

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A few days after that call with Mr. Sexy Voice, a letter arrived with scrawled handwriting addressed to me. I finally got to see “him”, the man with the deep sexy voice whom I envisioned would have the looks to match.

He did not show his face, but only his body – nude, except for his mid-calf the black socks. This funny thing is, I barely noticed his nudity; the only thing that I could focus on was the socks.

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The next time he called, I just couldn’t help myself. He was so excited that I saw a picture of his penis that all he could do was ask, “So, what did you think? Tell me, how did you like it?” That is when it dawned on me that I truly never really even looked at his penis. I didn’t skip a beat, I told him I found his penis to be perfect. I built his ego up like no other could, I then proceeded to get him off. After his intense orgasm, I just had to know what the deal with his socks was. He was silent and said, “Oh, I just always wear socks, and they keep my feet warm when I jerk off.” What could I say to that?

I guess that comfort is the key, when a person is having an intimate encounter, even when the encounter is via the phone. What makes a man comfortable can be very different from what makes a woman comfortable.  And without being comfortable, and truly stimulated but relaxed, it is almost impossible to have an orgasm. Whenever Mr. Sexy Voice calls me at http://www.AdultPhonePal.com, I now envision him with his warm feet and black socks, and smile.

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