Divorce from the Kids’ Perspective: Lannie’s Story


Divorce from the Kids’ Perspective: Lannie’s Story
Can one woman’s view of her parents’ divorce open the door to a different perspective?

All of these things are the unintended consequences of what seems like a good and fair solution for many families.   Divorce is devastating for everyone involved, even when it seems like everyone is handling it well.  I would ask parents to be cognizant of that fact.  To watch their children for changes that could mean distress.  And to help them get through it. 

For more information on how children view divorce go to Link Learning Center and the course Divorce from the Kids’ Perspective


Kelly P. Crossing is a licensed professional counselor in the Dallas/Ft Worth area and founder of Link Learning Center, a premiere provider of continuing education to counselors and therapists—and to individuals, couples, and families.  

*Lannie is not her real name, and some details have been changed to protect her anonymity.

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Kelly P. Crossing


Kelly P. Crossing, LPC, MEd, MS


Location: Colleyville, TX
Credentials: LPC, Med, MS
Specialties: Anxiety Issues, Depression, Divorce/Divorce Prevention
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