Your lovework is to take a good look at the qualities of your parents you admire. What qualities of your mother or father, or close family member you look up to, do you put on a pedestal? Consider how you then put an incredible amount of pressure on yourself to also excel in this area.
Take a moment to acknowledge your strength and ability in this area and to let yourself off the hook of perfecting this quality. Once you can accept that this quality is already alive and well in you, you can create space for a man to come in and support you. 12 Ways To Transform Your Love Life