I am telling you all of this because you are going to have fears especially when it comes to love. If you are trying to push them down and not acknowledge them, they will get bigger and you may even convince yourself that you are not ready for love or that love isn’t possible for you.
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You might wear your fears as if they are reality. I want you to get that what you WANT/DESIRE, (which is love and partnership) IS REALITY, not this dialogue:
Will he want what I want?
Am I moving too fast?
Should I be calling him?
What if I scare him off?
I need to say less.
This week’s Lovework is:
Voice your fears in love. Write down your fears and read them aloud. Remind yourself of what you want and how you are going to get there. Tell me how this felt for you below.
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