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Something healed, released, and changed for the very first time. She was able to FEEL that her father absolutely loved her. She realized he gave her the gift of not tainting her life with his experiences, but was allowing her to pave her own path.

At the end of the weekend she said to me, “I am excited to flirt and date again.” There was a new lightness about her. Feeling loved by her dad allowed her to drop the baggage she had been carrying around for years. This OPENED her up to trust herself again.

I have said this over and over again. When you FEEL (not the logic brain stuff, but emotionally FEEL) the love of the people that raised you, something shifts in you forever. You open yourself up to love in new ways you couldn’t imagine before.

This week’s Lovework:

Who are you choosing not to trust? How does this affect you trusting yourself? What specifically do you not trust about yourself or the other person? How does it relate back to your mom or dad?

I would love to hear your thoughts on TRUST and how you choose to trust people. Tell me all about it by leaving your COMMENT here.

In happiness,


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