Kate's Tips To Be An Awesomely Datable Single Mom

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Kate's Tips To Be An Awesomely Datable Single Mom
5 tips that'll keep men wanting more of you

Come on ladies!!! There are people to whom you can brag or complain all you want about your kids. Usually those people are other mothers; pop a bottle of wine and have at it! They are rarely your boyfriend or, God forbid, your date! When you are on a date you should be doing three things: being curious, listening and sharing yourself openly. Sometimes that will entail some talk of your children because they are a huge part of who you are, but if every topic of conversation somehow circles back to your child, this will likely be your last date.
If you are finding it difficult to talk about anything other than your children, this might be a good sign that you need to take a look at your identity. So many of us lose our identities through motherhood and most of us don’t even know that it’s happened. Talking about your kids nonstop is a good sign that it has and a great time to start doing some soul searching. Fore more on this, please visit my website.

5. Become Fully Self-Supporting

 

This is way harder than it sounds. Some of us have been out of the workforce for years and years. Many of us haven’t had a job in decades. Spousal support was created for just this reason and I think it is absolutely necessary for most of us who gave it all up to stay home with our children. The effects of having been out of the workplace are endless, from low self-esteem to not being able to secure a mortgage. There are so many reasons for us to turn the corner and become fully self-supporting and so many reasons it can be scary as all hell. Oftentimes the easiest way out can seem like finding another man to support us, but the truth is that a vast majority of men aren’t interested in that. Most men are attracted to us because of what we contribute - to the world, to the relationship - not what we can take from it. Few men actually want to rescue a damsel in distress with 3 kids and frankly those who do may have some other “issues” going on… 

 

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, I believe that Single Mothers are some of the most powerful women in the world today. We have risen up out of the ashes like Phoenixes and we are able to take on anything we put our minds to. But with great power comes great responsibility, so let’s be hugely responsible about this and do it right, shall we Mamas? Let’s make sure the right reputations go before us…

 

Kate Anthony is a Rockin' Single Mother who works with Single Moms to weed through all the craziness of what this new life has to offer, and find within themselves the amazing, powerful and relentless love-goddesses that they truly are. For more information about how to work with her visit her website and find her on Facebook and Twitter.

 
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