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Summer Fun With Kids, Maybe Or Maybe Not!

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A few things to think about when planning the summer break with children

First, I would like to address the stress that parents put on themselves to make sure that the children are entertained all summer. You are not the entertainment committee. Children need to learn how to handle boredom. This is a life skill; most of life is mundane and boring. We hope you do not want to have the child that needs constant stimulation; think about what that will look like in the future - scary, drama seeking, excitement seeking and thrill seeking. You probably know some adults like that, and it is exhausting to be around endless drama.

Working parents, your children are in some kind of camps, daycare, etc. that is enough for them. No need to plan events in the evenings. They still have a busy schedule and need down time whether they like it or not.

Those who do not work outside the home may have camps and other things as well but may not because it’s not necessary. It’s still a good idea to plan your summers. Having a schedule each day will make things predictable for the kids, and therefore, things will run more smoothly.

  • Breakfast
  • Kids have free play
  • Then, reading time
  • Lunch
  • Outside time or if too hot, then something physical inside
  • Nap or quiet time, reading
  • Snack
  • TV

You get the idea. Wednesday is grocery day and Monday, Tuesday and Thursday we go to the pool. Friday we try to have a play date somewhere or with someone, etc.

It may sound like a lot of work, and it may be in the beginning, but you will be glad you did it later.

Older kids that stay home – they are still expected to complete the family obligations before leaving or having a friend over, etc. Remember chores build character!

  • Clean kitchen
  • Do laundry
  • Pick up

These things are to be completed before and not after their own fun.

Older kids can start cooking meals and practicing things like pouring drinks, cutting their own meat, setting the table, loading the dishwasher, etc. You would be surprised to see how much kids grow physically and how much they mature during the summer break.


This article was originally published at Parent Talk with Kary. Reprinted with permission from the author.


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