KarenLee Poter - Dating Coach, Divorce Recovery Coach, Relationship Coach, Sex Coach, Social Worker, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner - Northbrook, IL
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KarenLee Poter (MSW)

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Why Men Prefer Older Women In Bed

The younger man who has a sexual encounter with an older woman will remember it as some of the best sex of his life. The benefits will continue when the young man is ready for a relationship with a girl of his age. One result to having experienced sex with a cougar is ...

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A 10-Step Guide To Flirting With A Man Of Any Age

"Why don't you come up sometime and see me?" Did Mae West brazenly utter those words? Gasp! Countless articles have been written on the rules of dating and she probably broke every one of those rules with that flirtatious question. Was she too bold? Too aggressive? Doesn't she know how to play ...

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7 Sexy Secrets About Cougars

Hello, my name is KarenLee and I am a cougar. It sounds like I belong in an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting, but I assure you that a cougar is not a person with an addiction to Read More

Top 10 Cougar Dating Myths Debunked

I'm a card-carrying cougar. I have been a consistent member of the "Cougar Club" since my husband Read More

10 Differences Dating Widows Vs Divorcees

Six months after my husband died, I decided to venture out into the single’s world. I sauntered into a swanky downtown Chicago restaurant with a divorced female friend. She left me perched on a bar stool to go to ...

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KarenLee Poter

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Time in Practice:

25 years +

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Additional Expertise:

Divorce Recovery Coach

Relationship Coach

Sex Coach

Social Worker


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Articles by KarenLee Poter
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Why Men Prefer Older Women In Bed

Learn why the cougar is hunted by so many men.


A 10-Step Guide To Flirting With A Man Of Any Age

Read on to become an expert at flirting and become a self-assured woman.

cougar woman bearing claws

7 Sexy Secrets About Cougars

Plus: setting the sexist stereotypes straight!

cougar couple

Top 10 Cougar Dating Myths Debunked

A proud cougar reveals the top 10 myths and truths about older women dating younger men.


10 Differences Dating Widows Vs Divorcees

Is dating a widow the same as dating a divorcee? Here are 10 differences between the two.

KarenLee Poter

All Specialties

Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support, Divorce Rehabilitation, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Health/Wellness, Infidelity / Affair Recovery, Life Management, Life Transitions, Matchmaking, Midlife Crisis, Self-Esteem, Sexuality