7 Sexy Secrets About Cougars

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Plus: setting the sexist stereotypes straight!

You won't see many gray-haired cougars. They feel comfortable in their own skin. They may wear more animal print and low cut blouses than their younger counterparts. Cougars have great posture and understand body language. When a cougar enters a room, people notice her.

2. Cougars have confidence and ooze self-esteem. They have high social intelligence and know how to communicate their needs. They are comfortable demanding respect from a man of any age. Cougars are not afraid of being alone and can entertain themselves.

Cougars don't depend on men for their happiness or to feel complete. They aren't needy and this quality is what frequently attracts younger men. They aren't looking for a husband and their biological clock isn't running out of time.

3. Cougars are financially self-sufficient. They don't expect to be wined and dined by men. They like material possessions but don't rely on men to purchase them. If they want to go to a restaurant, theater, or sporting event, they'll be comfortable making arrangements on their own.

4. Cougars are spontaneous. They stay out late and may be the last to leave a party. They have to be flexible with the younger man's last minute plans and inability to commit in advance. Cougars know how to have a good time.

5. Cougars enjoy sex! Younger men are keenly aware that older women have years of experience and know how to please them. Their confidence in the bedroom is a big reason for the attraction. A cougar isn't shy and communicates her sexual needs to her younger guy.

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