- ask a good friend to keep you on track (caution: make sure this friend is willing to hold you to your commitments, and won’t soften on you when the going gets tough);
- find a coach to hold you to your commitments;
- find a book or course that outlines steps to take, and buddy up with someone to go through it together.
If you want to live a life you love - with people you love, who love you back, then it’s
time for you to make decisions, and create action plans, that will put you on the right
path. You’re worth the effort!