4 Reasons Why You're Not Attracting Great Men to Date

By Karen Jones. Posted on Jan 15th 2013.

Are all the good men taken?

You may be thinking to yourself that tackling these four things will take you a lifetime to address. Take heart. Just take the first step: awareness; I always say that’s half the battle right there.

Then be gentle with yourself as you take your next steps toward changing your negative expectations about men, shifting the way you talk about them with others, getting clear on what you really want in a man, and feeling whole and complete just as you are.

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Work on those areas, and I know you’ll have great men all around you - in no time!

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