Lingerie, A Powerful Turn-On


Lingerie, A Powerful Turn-On

Men are visually stimulated.

It probably stems from the first men of our species. The more easily they were aroused, the more frequently they would have sex, and the more of their off-spring would inhabit, and propagate the planet. the men walking around today are descended from those quick-to-get-aroused men.

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Most men say sexy lingerie is a big turn-on. One thing it tells them is that the woman wearing it is interested in sex and will probably be an enthusiastic partner.

Men not only like lingerie in the bedroom, they love to see a tiny bit of lace showing beneath a conservative suit, or through a silk blouse. It’s not about being sleazy. Most men will certainly look at a sleazy woman putting on a sexy show, but they generally prefer a classier, more erotic and sensual look on the women they date and marry. Actually, if you’ve never tried it, you might be surprised that you like it. It will make you feel more feminine, attractive, and alluring. If you don’t have anything sexy, get a Victoria’s Secret catalogue or go online. Or, go to a store specializing in sexy, playful lingerie. Go with a girlfriend and make it a fun activity.

If you’re uncomfortable with wearing the things you’ve purchased, put them on and wear them under your clothes. No one will know you have them on but you’ll get used to the idea and how it feels. Then when you reveal them to your man, you’ll be able to give him the sensual and seductive experience that you intended when you made your purchase. Wearing sexy lingerie will make you feel sexier, more alluring, and attractive. It also helps keep you in the mood.

From my heart to yours,
Kara Oh

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